What’s Good for the Goose IS NOT Always Good for the Gander

I was thinking…Dangerous, I know…but I did it anyway ๐Ÿ™‚

So, what does a Perfect Marriage look like?

I know some of us look towards other couples to find the secret to happiness, the secret to a happy marriage.ย  But that doesn’t work.ย  “What is good for the goose is not always good for the gander.”

We are different people with different needs, so that’s not the answer.ย  I mean, you canย look to others’ marriages to see what TOOLS they utilizeย and try toย apply them to your own.ย  That’s about it.ย  What they do to show love for one another may not necessarily work for you, because it may not be what you need to feel loved.

Instead of making this long-winded, I’ll just give you what I came up with.

There is NO such thing as the Perfect Marriage!

You all knew that didn’t you?ย  Okay, so it takes me a whileย  ๐Ÿ˜›

I realized this by looking at the “marriage” of Christ to His Church.

Though HE is Perfect.ย  The Church isn’t!

WE are the Church.

Thus, anything that has to do with Human Beings will be UN-Perfect.

As youย know, we are fallen, sinfulย creatures and yaddaย yadda…

Therefore, theย most, the best, we can do is TRY!

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