And Now Decorum TOO?!

Not only are we expected to KNOW our Faith, but there’s a certain Decorum attached to the Celebration of the Eucharist as well?!?!??

Will the madness ever end??

His Eminence, Thomas Cardinal Collins Archdiocese of Toronto
His Eminence, Thomas Cardinal Collins from the Archdiocese of Toronto

Here is the list of what we should and should not do, according to
Thanks A Lot!! As if we don’t have enough to contend with…

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It doesn’t even really feel like a fast anymore since its just an hour. The Church requires every communicant to begin preparing to receive Jesus by observing an hour fast (from food) unless they’re aged or sick. Won’t really cost much to give this little to receive God into your soul would it?

(You mean we have to sacrifice our thirst and hunger??)

Come early, recollect yourself:

(Early?? You’re joking right? It’s hard enough to even make it to Church, much less be on time or, gasp!! Early!)

Sometime ago i asked on our Facebook page “When is one late for Mass” some said with confidence “When they come later than the Sign of the Cross”. I disappointed them by reminding them that the Mass actually begins with the procession. I usually advise people to make effort to be in Church at least 10-15 minutes before the actual time in order to have some time to pray and recollect; to begin the Mass in the right spirit. When it becomes a habit to arrive late, it ceases to be a real celebration for the person, and if it becomes a habit (especially Sundays) it begins to become sinful.


It is inappropriate to find a grown person snacking or chewing gum in Church. We want to show God some seriousness and show our devotion by setting aside a perfect “God-time”. This means we’d try to devote all our attention to the act of worship, to make it as perfect as possible. The house of God is a place of prayer, let us try to keep it so. For Children? I still don’t buy the idea of snacks. If it can be discreet, and if the child is really troublesome, then its okay.

(No Gum or snacks?! WHAT?!? Not even for my adolescent children or teens??)


Be modest, don’t attract too much attention by putting on something open. We also love to think Sunday as a real celebration, keep this in mind and put on the best you have. God is holy, your body is his Temple, cover it, and adorn it moderately.

(But I just spent a fortune on these shoes and I want Everyone to see that I have the latest handbag 😦 )

No Phones:

(You’re joking, right?!?!)

No cell phones; texting, chatting, calls etc. I have seen a number of people chatting over Facebook while at Mass. Then i wonder: So we really cannot give God little time anymore? What will it take to turn off our phones for an hour or two (Depending on where you live, some are as fast as 45 mins). The only justifiable case is big emergencies though, whatever it be, let it be serious and be discreet while attending to it. It is usually better to quietly leave the Church to attend to the emergency than text or receive calls inside.


Upon entering the Church, every informed Catholic remembers that Jesus is present in the Tabernacle (usually indicated by some light beside it). The problem usually is that only few remember to show some respect. Genuflecting (such that your knee hits the ground) is a sign of devotion and reverence to the Lord who for love waits for us in the Tabernacle with blessing and peace.

(But my shoes will get scuffed and my clothes dirty)

Active participation:

Some find it hard to follow all the routines over and over again; to stand, sit, speak when needed etc. However, active participation means exactly this. In order to be really part of a praying community, we must join the Body of Christ in its movements. We are supposed to try as much as possible to join in singing, praying, and in performing all appropriate gestures while at Mass for our participation to be perfect.


Receiving Communion:

It is customary to show some reverence before, during and after communion. Before receiving, one must recollect, pray and prepare themselves. Receiving, it is advised to bow or kneel (depending on what’s customary in your area). After receiving, kneel and pray to Jesus, don’t be in a hurry, he might also have a word or two for you. It shouldn’t be heard, it could be simple movements in your soul, inspirations etc. But pray and keep still for a while. Remember to be joyful as well, when you leave mass, share this joy with everyone !

Be Charitable:

If you’re sick, be sure not to receive from the chalice. Remember to respect people close to you, do not consider yourself alone. Your neighbor might not like to be held while at mass, or even be talked to, respect it. If your child is noisy either take them outside (if crying) or to be back. Do to others what you’d want done to you.

(Blah, blah, blah, rules, rules, rules)

Don’t be in a hurry:

Do not leave the Church before the Presider (the minister), the Mass ends officially when the priest leaves the Church. Even then, it is usually advised you sit/kneel in silent prayer of thanksgiving or simply gaze at Jesus in the Tabernacle, smile at him and just be joyful. After which you should leave quietly in order not to distract others.

(But then I’ll get stuck in all that traffic leaving! HELLOOOOO!!)


And yeah, though I am being facetious, I hope you picked up on that, how many times do we really show Our Lord the respect he Deserves?


God Bless †

6 thoughts on “And Now Decorum TOO?!

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  1. Okay, so I haven’t been paying attention since your hiatus. Good stuff. Keep it coming.

    God bless you and keep you,
    Deacon Dodger


    1. WOW!!!!!

      Thank You!!!

      You have put a HUGE SMILE on my face!

      Hope you have been well and I shall be reading up on your stuff soon!! Well, as soon as the little time usurper gives me a break 😉

      God Bless You and Keep You Always †


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